Life design begins with a decision There are times when we feel we’re in control of our own lives. And there are phases when we’re just reacting: to demands at work, to other people’s expectations, to bills, appointments, and obligations. Daily life functions, but your own direction easily gets lost in the process. Wishes are postponed for later, changes are justified by bad timing, and important decisions are delayed until they seemingly resolve themselves. Consciously shaping your own life doesn’t